Here I am !

Well, here I am. Totally new to blogspot, but I feel I have so many lessons to help others learn. Life lessons, that today, we don't take a minute to see , what it right there in front of us !

How many days have you felt anxiety, panic or just plain stressed out? Don't think you're alone, because you are not. With the way the world is today, so fast paced, never enough time in the day to do all the things that we must accomplish by a certain deadline, to most likely please someone else. Think about this, when is the last time you took a minute for yourself and just took a deep breath and relaxed? Probably a while ago right?

Today, more than ever that is the problem of society. We say things we don't mean, we do things we don't mean, we make decisions because we're stressed out or angry, we hurt the ones we love verbally, our blood feels like it's going to explode in our veins, our hands get sweaty, we feel anxious, nervous, tense and so many other things all at once.

Just stop !!!! RELAX ! People are doing these things constantly, all because they feel the burden for time and feel they must meet a deadline either they themselves set, or someone else , and forget who they are, or what they enjoy, what really matters to them, and what comes from the heart.

Because of this, do we rush everything in our everyday life? You know, things like getting an education because it's what our parents think would be best, jumping into a relationship because it's what the other person wants, giving up what means most to us, to make someone else happy, losing ourselves all in the process of the everyday struggle.

Do we rush these things because its the push of everyday life , throwing us into them or is it all just because we are so strung in every different direction trying to please so many different people at once that we've forgot who we once were? who that person inside of us really is, what we really enjoy, and what reallly deep down inside makes our heart sing? When you are feeling stress or anxiety , you are unable to make a decision clearly from your heart.

Then there is the whole other factor of just being a people pleasing person. For so long this may be the only way you have known, never standing up for yourself or your rights and beliefs, always the person that will try to make someone else happy. The type of person who will give up their own happiness, their own life and dreams, to make someone else happy, is it a loss of self control and self worth? Or is it that rush? That knee jerk reaction to make a decision without thinking it through, because at that moment, it is what will make someone else happy and we can't say no.


The question Im really wondering is, is it society? or is it us? in our inability to really verbally communicate to others what we really want?